I was about to log off when this popped up in my flist and I had to read it. I lost my cat of 21 years a few weeks ago and have been struggling through that, so I really feel for you, and Ianto, here.

Everyone deals with grief in their own way and it's not surprising Ianto's way is to withdraw and hide himself in work, or just... withdraw. Bless Owen for his understanding--when he needs to be, he can be quite compassionate in his own gruff way. I'm hopeful that Ianto's wise enough to know that the grief will abate in time, and he has Jack and the team to help him.

Doesn't make it any easier, though. I'm sorry to hear about your cat. I know you'll make her feel like most beloved creature on earth in the time she has left. <3<3